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If you are in a divorce, considering one, or if you
want to save your marriage, you have
come to the right place

Bill Ferguson shows how to end conflict, heal hurt, let go, forgive, restore cooperation, resolve disputes, and if necessary, divorce as friends. From helpful articles to individual support, this site has everything you need to help you get through this difficult time.

How to divorce as friends and
maybe save your marriage

How you interact with the other person determines what will happen in your relationship. You can either act in a way that ends conflict, heals your relationship, and forwards cooperation or you can act in a way that creates more pain and suffering. Usually, we create more pain and suffering.

We have so much hurt and resentment, we lose our ability to see clearly. All we can do is fight, resist, hang on, and withdraw. This in turn destroys love and creates a destructive cycle of conflict.

Whether you want to divorce as friends or save your marriage, you need to do the same thing. You need to end the conflict and heal your relationship, not necessarily as husband and wife, but as one human being to another. Use this site to walk through the steps.

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The underlying problem

If your relationship isn't working, there is something under the surface that is creating the problem. This underlying condition creates a state of fear, upset, and tunnel vision. It makes you defensive. It destroys love and creates distance. It keeps you from finding solutions and it fuels the cycle of conflict.

Until this condition is found and removed, nothing will change and the problem will continue. Fortunately, the process for finding and removing this condition is relatively easy. The first step is to identify it and learn how it works. The next step is to heal the hurt that fuels it.

The moment you do this, the condition loses power. You restore your ability to see clearly and can see what needs to be done. You can then act in a way that ends conflict and heals your relationship, one human being to another. Learn more


How we can support you

The articles on this site are valuable, but working with Bill Ferguson can make a profound difference in your life. You can greatly reduce the conflict and suffering. You can heal the hurt and restore your inner peace. You can get your power back. You can resolve issues, restore cooperation, and divorce as friends. You may even be able to save your marriage.

We can give you the tools and the support you need to handle this area of your life. To start, give us a call. We can talk about your situation and create a plan of action.


For more information, call 713-520-5370


How we can support you


We offer workshops and individual support. We also have the Mastery of Life Audio Course, a bookstore, and a free Mastery of Life E-Course. Our workshops are in Houston, TX. Individual support is available in person or by telephone.


Who is Bill Ferguson?

Bill's work has been called the “penicillin of psychology.” He has been featured on Oprah and recommended by both The Wall Street Journal and The Washington Post. His book, How To Heal A Painful Relationship, has become a national best seller. He is also the author of Get Your Power Back and Miracles Are Guaranteed.

The Texas Counseling Association thinks so highly of his work, they asked him to deliver the keynote address at their annual convention. He taught his approach to over 2,300 counselors and therapists. He has led over 2,000 workshops and has worked with thousands of individuals. Learn more about Bill


See the beginning of a keynote address Bill did for over 2,300 counselors and therapists. See a TV interview and a news video.

Watch Bill talk about what creates and destroys love and the inner issues that sabotage our lives.



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