If you are in a divorce, considering one, or if you would like to save your marriage, you have come to the right place.

Bill Ferguson shows how to end conflict, heal hurt, let go, forgive, restore cooperation, resolve disputes, and if necessary, divorce as friends. From helpful articles to individual support, this site has everything you need to help you get through this difficult time.




How to Divorce As Friends
And maybe save your marriage!

How you interact with the other person determines what will happen in your relationship. You can either act in a way that restores love and forwards cooperation or you can act in a way that creates more pain and suffering. Usually, we create more pain and suffering.

We have so much hurt and upset, we lose our ability to see clearly. All we can do is fight, resist, hang on or withdraw. This in turn destroys love and creates a cycle of conflict. This cycle of conflict then brings out the worst in people.

To be most effective in handling your situation, this cycle of conflict needs to end. This is true whether you want to save your marriage or divorce as friends. Fortunately, it only takes one person to heal a relationship. This site will show you how. Start the healing process.


The Underlying Problem

If you have any relationship that isn't working, there will be an underlying condition of resisting or hanging on that is creating the problem. This condition creates a state of fear, upset and tunnel vision. It destroys love and fuels the cycle of conflict. Until this condition is found and removed, nothing will change and the problem will continue.

Fortunately, the process for finding and removing this condition is relatively easy. The first step is to indentify the condition and learn how it works. The next step is to find and heal the hurt that fuels it.

The moment you do this, the underlying condition loses power. You restore your ability to see clearly and can see what needs to be done. You can then interact in a way that restores love and heals your relationship, one human being to another.


How We Can Support You

The most effective way to handle your situation is to work directly with Bill Ferguson. We also have the Mastery of Life Audio Course. This course has 10 CDs and a workbook. It walks you through the same healing steps, but covers much more.

For more support, visit our bookstore, attend our workshops, and get a free Mastery of Life E-Course. Our workshops are in Houston, TX. Individual support is available in person or by telephone.


How we can support you


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About Bill Ferguson

As a former divorce attorney, Bill Ferguson gained national attention for his ability to take the conflict out of divorce. Fifteen percent of his clients never divorced, and the ones who did were able to part as friends. He has been featured on Oprah and his work has been recommended by both The Wall Street Journal and The Washington Post. He teaches therapists and works with people around the world. More on Bill


See the beginning of a keynote address Bill did for over 2,300 counselors and therapists. See a TV interview and a news video.

Watch Bill talk about what creates and destroys love. and the inner issues that sabotage our lives.


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