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Get On With Your Life - Continued
Don't jump into a new relationship. When a relationship ends, we often want to get into another relationship as fast as we can. We do this to avoid our hurt. Although this may bring some temporary relief, the avoidance of this hurt tends to create more suffering in the long run. This is true for several reasons. First, the more eager you are to find a relationship, the less patience you'll have to find the person that's best for you. You are likely to end up in a relationship that doesn't support you. Second, the moment you step into another relationship, the hurt that you've been avoiding gets suppressed and the healing process stops. The hurt that you've been experiencing is actually old hurt that's been reactivated. This hurt has been sabotaging you for years and now it's in your face. Feeling this hurt may be uncomfortable, but it's the key to a major healing. Allow yourself to feel your hurt willingly like a child and put your focus on creating a life that you enjoy. As you do this, the hurt loses power and soon disappears. You will then have more peace of mind and be in a much better position to find the relationship of your dreams.
When you started your relationship, you certainly never planned for it to end, but this is what happened. Now you have a choice. You can either consider your new situation as an opportunity or as a predicament. Whichever you choose is what you'll get. If you focus on the opportunity, life will open up and great things will happen. If you focus on the predicament, you'll get more suffering. So focus on the opportunity. Look for what's possible and take the steps to have your dreams come true. There is nothing you can do about your past but there is a lot you can do about your future. Have your life be great. To learn more about getting on with your life, visit MasteryOfLife.com, another site by Bill Ferguson. Be sure and read the sections on cleaning up your life, prosperity, life purpose and spirituality. We also have a Mastery Of Life Audio Course that walks you through the process of creating your future.
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