You see life clearly and you become far more effective. In relationships, you can end the conflict and restore the love, one human being to another.

The process for finding and healing this hurt is very simple and very fast, but it takes more than just an understanding of how it works. It's important to actually walk through the healing process.

The best way to find and heal this hurt is to do one or two Individual Consulting Sessions with Bill Ferguson. Consulting sessions can be done by telephone or in person.

The second best way is for you to do the Mastery Of Life Audio Course or attend Bill's weekend workshop, Return To The Heart. You can also read his book, Get Your Power Back.

If you want to start the healing process now, download the audio course or the book. You can also listen to the first CD or the second tape of How To Divorce As Friends.

Make sure you do this work. Healing this hurt is one of the most important things you can ever do.

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The following examples will give you more insight into how this hurt sabotages your life. Be sure and read them.

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Example 1

When Rhonda was growing up, her father was so occupied with his work that he seldom paid any attention to her. When he did pay attention, he would yell at her. She felt totally unloved. As a result, Rhonda couldn't help but buy the notion that she wasn't worth loving. This wasn't the truth, but this became a hurt that she would spend the rest of her life running from.

To avoid this hurt, Rhonda would interact in a way that would sabotage all of her relationships. Anytime something implied that she wasn't worth loving, she would become full of fear and upset. She would try to control life and force people to be a certain way.

No matter how hard the men in her life tried, they could never treat Rhonda "worth loving" enough. She would constantly be upset about one thing or another.

She would also hang on to the men in her life. She had to, because if someone left, that would reactivate all her hurt. To avoid this hurt she hung on. Rhonda was so hard to live with, she pushed everyone away.

Finally, after her third and most painful divorce, she noticed that there was a pattern in her life. She realized that she must have something to do with her relationship problems. This was the point when Rhonda's life turned around.

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